Paulette Perhach: “I feel like a hypocrite”

Paulette Perhach, an award-winning writer and author, shares her experiences with rejection and failure.

She emphasizes the importance of being open and vulnerable as a writer and navigating the challenges that come with it.

She discusses her journey with ADHD and how it has influenced her relationship with rejection.

Paulette also talks about the importance of self-compassion and seeking external help when needed. She shares personal stories of infidelity and how she stays open despite past experiences.

In this conversation, Paulette Perhach discusses the importance of feeling and embracing vulnerability, the power of acceptance, and the journey from victimhood to survivorship. She emphasizes the need to tap into our emotions and experiences in order to grow and transform. Paulette also shares insights on negotiation, self-education, and the value of having a vision. She encourages aspiring writers to read, write consistently, and start with small projects before submitting their work.

Paulette’s personal story of resilience and growth serves as an inspiration for anyone navigating the challenges of life and pursuing their creative passions.

For anyone listening, you can order a copy of Welcome to the Writer’s Life: How to Design Your Writing Craft, Writing Business, Writing Practice, and Reading Practice on Amazon.

To find out more about Paulette Perhach and her writing coaching, retreats and pieces, visit: ⁠https://www.pauletteperhach.com/⁠ 

Follow Paulette on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/paulettejperhach/⁠

I will also be giving away a copy of Paulette’s latest book to a listener who subscribes to the podcast (your entry will count twice if you also review). You just need to email screenshots to media@hustlingwriters.com.

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Chapters

  • 00:00 Introduction and Background

  • 02:17 Embracing Rejection and Failure

  • 06:04 The Power of a Beginner’s Mindset

  • 10:07 Navigating Rejection and Failure with ADHD

  • 24:34 Staying Open and Vulnerable as a Writer

  • 29:56 Embracing Vulnerability and Growth

  • 30:23 The Power of Acceptance

  • 31:31 Negotiation and Self-Education

  • 33:18 Having a Vision and Setting Audacious Goals

  • 36:33 Starting Small and Building Confidence

  • 41:17 Navigating Rejection and Persevering

     


 

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